Mother HIV+, court asks daughter if she wants her

Jaipur: It's just a photograph of her nine-year-old daughter that a Jaipur-based HIV positive woman has seen for almost two years now.

Infected by her husband, who died in 2003, she was forcibly separated from the child by her in-laws in 2005.

However, the real blow for her came when a trial court in Jaipur denied her the child's custody on the grounds that she is HIV positive and hence cannot look after the child.

Now, the court in a bizarre twist has left the decision up to the child, saying that the girl would decide if she wants to live with her mother or her grandparents.

"They say I can't look after her. When her grandparents, who are in their 70s can look after her, then why can't I? And I have already said that as long as I am alive, my child should be with me and then with whoever she wishes to stay with," says the woman.

"What they have ended up doing is violating her mother's natural guardian right, which the Supreme Court has over and over again held for women," says Secretary People's Union for Civil Liberties Jaipur, Kavita Shrivastava.

"The court has denied her this right and that too on a discriminatory ground that she's HIV positive."

And as if losing her child wasn't enough, the HIV positive woman also has to contend with what she feels is an insensitive attitude of the court.

While passing its order, the court had made her identity public.

Experts say it's a contravention of Article 14 of the Constitution, and of a Supreme Court directive on keeping identities of HIV positive persons confidential.

Says the victim's lawyer, Ajay Kumar Jain, "The trial court has refused to conceal the identity of the woman though a specific prayer was made by her in this regard."

Women's groups have now stepped in on the victim's behalf and filed an appeal against the order. They are also demanding compensation for the damages she's incurred because of the trauma.

Meanwhile, the Additional District and Sessions Judge Court has stayed the trial court's order and the next date of hearing has been set for October 11.

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